O for Outfit
It doesn’t matter what you are wearing – no outfit is an invitation for rape.
Too often we see rape myths used to blame a victim or survivor for their own assault. Using clothes to victim-blame or asking questions like ‘what were they wearing?’ suggests that they could’ve done something to prevent the assault. It also lets the perpetrator off the hook.
Using rape-myths makes it difficult for survivors to seek support and report a rape. People assaulted while wearing short, revealing or alternative clothing might fear that they will be blamed. Others who were assaulted while covered up or those who feel they are not attractive might also feel that they will not be believed. The only person responsible for a rape or sexual assault is the perpetrator. No-one else.
Whether you are dressed up, covered up, at the gym or rocking your alternative gear or kink, we are clear: clothes cannot consent – only you can.
