I for Intervene
When we see someone in trouble or looking uncomfortable, it can be really hard to know what to do. That is why it is useful to know safe ways to intervene or to help stop things getting worse.
If you notice someone being harassed or assaulted there are things you can do to help:
- See – watch what is happening. Don’t turn away as this gives the message that what is happening is normal.
- Distract – pretend to recognise the person being harassed and chat to them.
- Report – tell a member of staff if you are inside a venue.
- Describe – you can make a note of what is happening, where you are and a description of the perpetrator that you can then report to the police. You might even take a photo as evidence.
Your own safety is the most important thing though and only intervene if it is safe to do so.
Stand By Me have loads of useful information on how to be an active bystander, including downloadable resources on their website.
Safe Space Pledge
More and more venues in Nottingham are signing up to the Safe Space Pledge. These places have staff who are trained in how to intervene and support women who are being harassed. You can find out more about this scheme here.
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